A Letter to all Cyber Bully's

Dear Cyber bully,

                I don’t understand why anyone would feel the need to troll on peoples social media for the purpose of finding error in their life. Yet the error that is claimed to have been found seems only wrong to the cyber bully. Then there is a rant to try and make that person believe lies. Even worst are the motives behind bulling are not always related to the person who is being bullied.

                Apparently this is a thing. It is something that is becoming a norm to society. I am worried that someday it will be accepted as the only way to solve a problem. I don’t understand why the art of communication and compassion is slowly dying. Still the same it seems that we need to adapt to the web and social media because it is the way of the future. I just hope that society stops accepting this behavior from not only children but adults. Yes you are reading correctly it happens to adults. It sounds so silly but it is true.

                 I am saddened to know that our children have come into a world where people will cowardly hid behind their computer screen and try to destroy another person.  Destruction of their character, self-worth or worst their soul which sadly has lead kids to committing suicide. Let’s stop the cycle lets be the example that our children see to show this behavior is unacceptable.

                Oh friends this is a new concept to understand. Still the same I pray for peace and happiness that will allow hearts to open up and the hate to drown out. After all we are all running the same race even if our journey takes us down different roads or paths we need to share this world and make it a better place. I believe it is all of our responsibilities to make a better world in order to see positive changes.

Yours truly,

Your friend Pauly 

Note: If you or someone you know is a victim of cyber bulling please get help. A few tips for you also document, don't argue and do not reply.  Here are a few links to help you understand this is a crime. Also to help you know how to deal with it.

http://criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/cyber-bullying.html

http://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/how-to-report/

http://blogs.edweek.org/edweek/finding_common_ground/2015/07/social_media_is_it_todays_modern_day_public_shaming_venue.html

http://www.wired.com/2013/07/ap_argshaming/

(Special thanks to Lulu Salavegsen)